
Ch-Ch-Changes
Meeting
Life's Changes Head-On
A
wise person once said, "The more things change, the more they
stay the same." We organizers work with our clients on transforming
their lives by making changes to their habits and their environments.
If a client truly wants their lives to become more organized and
to effect a deep, profound, and long-lasting transformation, then
they have to be open to change - sometimes big changes, sometimes
small ones. Opening up to change can sometimes be tough, but here
are a few ideas to make the process a little easier:
Look at the
big picture. When changes occur in our lives and our environments,
it can be stressful and scary - or fun and exciting, depending on
the circumstance and your perspective. As something in your world
is going through a change, take a step back and assess the bigger
picture. What positive things might come out of this change? What
new challenges come about because of this? Most importantly, changes
usually signal an opportunity to grow - but you have to be willing
to do it.
Bend, don't
break. Avoiding or fighting the changes in your life can be
much more difficult than adapting to meet them. Trying to keep things
from changing and holding on to past goals and idealized histories
can keep you from moving forward. As difficult as it may be at first,
learning to be adaptable and flexible can help you meet life's changes
with aplomb and poise.
Pick your battles.
Not every change is one worth making, and some things are better
left unchanged. The key is learning which is which - and putting
your energies into making the right changes, not every change. When
you notice that a change is about to occur in your life, try to
think about the potential effects that it might have on you, and
how you can best use your energies and resources to meet it.
Learning to adapt
to changes in your life and your environment is an ongoing part
of the human experience. Life is full of changes large and small.
How you meet them can be a key factor in determining how much you
get out of life. Chances are that you'll have plenty of opportunities
to practice adapting to change - as change is truly the only constant
in life!
Joshua Zerkel
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